I can do it sometimes, but only for a handful of styles (wrap and shirt dresses, v neck sweaters, anything with an empire waist) that almost always work for me from the stores I usually shop at. I don't know how anyone can buy pants online unless they're just ordering the same old jeans they always buy, though. » 9/30/14 2:13pm Today 2:13pm

This sounds like it's a group consisting of some women who are already having affairs and some other women who are a little bit deluded about the extent of their dorky friend's crush, and are assuming that a confession of love a few years ago means he'd totally be up for marrying her today. (That being said, I do… » 9/30/14 12:41pm Today 12:41pm

I will venture a partial response: I really like to watch guys jerking off. I'm mildly interested in dudes with things up their asses. If this were someone who I actually knew and thought was sexy and the item proposed wasn't fucking pepperoni, I'd take him up on it. But I do think this is a minority preference, and… » 9/30/14 12:26am Today 12:26am

There's something to this. Christmas is high risk-high reward and generally involves extended family. Same with Thanksgiving. Easter? I don't know, that seems like a holiday you can get away with doing small, and from the perspective of the hostess rather than the kids, I can see that it's just enough to be fun but… » 9/29/14 9:53pm Yesterday 9:53pm

It's not the most tactful way of stating it, but I don't think there's anything about that signaling "disgusting fucking prick" to me. If a guy can only get off through intercourse or from a blow job, he should be able to say that and not be expected to settle for a sex life consisting entirely of eating me out or of… » 9/29/14 4:45pm Yesterday 4:45pm

I love all of those things, and I don't see how any of that means you're broken. Not everyone's into nerdy stuff. You've probably found the subcategory you can stand: nerdy stuff with a big dose of politics. Otherwise, why not use your time to enjoy things you actually like? I don't try to force myself to like… » 9/29/14 3:39pm Yesterday 3:39pm

I think the problem with the term "dealbreakers" is that it encompasses everything from not wanting to date someone who's not passionate about the exact same bands to not wanting to date someone who wants to have 19 children and who thinks your gay sibling is going to hell. » 9/29/14 1:53pm Yesterday 1:53pm

Agreed. There are lots of areas where I agree that there's a double standard against female performers, but I'm really not seeing one here. Ariana isn't being criticized having detailed backstage riders (which Van Halen actually had a good reason for including, as they'd been having problems with venues not complying… » 9/29/14 1:33pm Yesterday 1:33pm

A plot and reasonably tolerable characters are both musts for me, but my preferred level of raunch varies with the author. Sex is harder to write about than people seem to assume, and even some people writing romance and erotica are awful at it. If someone has the chops to write a hot sex scene, it can be as detailed… » 9/26/14 3:42pm Friday 3:42pm